Living Joyful Courage

A parent community for the adolescent years

 

Is the season of raising adolescents not what you expected?

Are you ready to deepen your connection with your teen while maintaining your own boundaries and sanity?

Do you know there’s a better way to navigate these years—one built on influence through relationship rather than control?

Then you belong in Living Joyful Courage, a community designed for parents who are committed to growing alongside their teens.

Here you’ll find the content, coaching, and connection you need to build stronger relationships, establish healthy personal boundaries, and co-create expectations that actually work for your family.

You’re invited

Who is this membership for?

Parents who are ready to shift from control to influence.
Parents who value connection over compliance.
Parents who know that growing yourself is the foundation for guiding your teen.

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If you’re here, you already know the teen years are intense.

Your child—the one who used to climb into your lap and hang on your every word—now has their own opinions, their own world, and seemingly no time for you.

You’re navigating a heartbreaking paradox: wanting to hold them close while knowing you need to let them go. Worried about their choices. Questioning your own. Wondering if you’re doing enough, being enough, handling it right.

And here’s what makes it harder: you feel alone in it.

Even when you know other parents are struggling too, finding genuine connection—people who truly understand the intensity of mental health challenges, the fear around substance use, the exhaustion of school refusal, the daily whiplash of raising teens—feels impossible.

That’s exactly why Living Joyful Courage exists.

This community is your place to land. Parents who get it, who are committed to the same path you are: building influence through authentic relationship, maintaining boundaries that honor both you and your teen, and co-creating a family culture where everyone can grow.

We believe there’s hope—not someday, but right now, in the midst of the hard stuff.

Walk with us on this transformative path.

We made this space for you

You get it all

The Positive Discipline for Teens 6 week class:
Building the foundation

All members—new and returning—are invited to join our 6-week foundational parenting class. This isn’t just another lecture series you check off your list. It’s the intentional grounding we all need before diving into the real work of the year ahead.

Why start here?

Because knowing what to do and actually doing it when your teen slams a door in your face are two completely different things.

This class establishes our shared language, our core principles, and the foundational understanding of adolescent development, nervous system regulation, and relationship-based parenting that everything else builds upon. Whether this is your first time through or you’re revisiting these concepts, starting the year together ensures we’re all on the same page—and that matters deeply for the community experience and coaching calls throughout the year.

For new members, this is where you’ll discover the “why” behind the tools and strategies—understanding teen brain development, recognizing your own triggers, and learning how influence actually supports when control stops working.

For returning members, this is your opportunity to go deeper. You’ll notice what you missed the first time, recognize how far you’ve come, and reinforce the concepts right when you need them most—at the start of a new year with new challenges.

And here’s what makes this truly transformational:

The class isn’t the end—it’s the launching pad. Once you have the foundation, you’ll spend the entire year integrating these principles into your real life through ongoing coaching calls, monthly content, and daily community support. This is where intellectual understanding becomes embodied practice. Where you learn to catch yourself before you react. Where you practice the skills until they become your new default.

Integration takes time, repetition, and support. The 6-week class gives you the framework. The Living Joyful Courage community gives you the year-long container to actually live it.

The 6 week class will run on Wednesdays, beginning January 21st, 5-6:30pm PST.

Monthly Group Calls:
Where Learning Becomes Living

Twice a month, we gather as a community for calls designed to transform how you show up with your teen—and with yourself.

First Wednesday of the Month | 5-6:30pm PST | Workshop Call

These workshop-style sessions dive deep into the content that matters most to you. Topics are generated by the group—what you’re struggling with, what you’re curious about, what’s showing up in your families right now. We explore personal growth work, nervous system regulation, and Positive Discipline skills that build your capacity to stay grounded when things get intense.

This is where we expand on the foundation from our 6-week class, taking those core concepts and weaving them into the specific challenges of your real life.

Third Wednesday of the Month | 5-6:30pm PST | Group Coaching Call

This is where integration happens in real time. Members bring their current challenges—the conversation that went sideways, the boundary that’s being tested, the situation they don’t know how to handle—and receive direct coaching they can implement immediately.

Here’s what makes group coaching so powerful: You’re not just getting support for your own situation. You’re learning from every family’s story. You’re seeing how the same principle applies across completely different circumstances. You’re witnessing other parents navigate their fears and find their way forward, which gives you permission and courage to do the same.

This is community learning at its best.

When one parent gets coached on setting a boundary around screen time, you’re learning how to set boundaries around curfew. When someone works through their fear of their teen’s anxiety, you’re examining your own relationship with your teen’s struggles. Every call deepens your understanding and strengthens your ability to integrate these tools into your daily life.

These calls are rich with connection, learning, and growth. This is where we get real about what we’re going through. Where we practice the vulnerability that we ask of our teens. Where we support each other in feeling seen, heard, and less alone in the hardest moments of parenting.

You’ll walk away with practical strategies for fostering healthy communication, setting boundaries that stick, and navigating conflict with more confidence and less reactivity—not someday, but right now, this week, in your home.

Quarterly 1:1 Coaching:
Your Personal Integration Sessions

Four times a year, you get 30 minutes of dedicated one-on-one time with me—just you, your specific family dynamics, and the focused support you need to become the parent you want to be.

This is where the work gets personal.

In our group calls, you’re learning principles and witnessing transformation. In our 1:1 sessions, we’re applying everything directly to your teen, your triggers, your family’s unique patterns and challenges.

Maybe you need help identifying why a particular behavior from your teen sends you into a tailspin. Maybe you’re working on a specific boundary that keeps crumbling under pressure. Maybe you’re navigating a complex situation—a mental health crisis, a custody challenge, a relationship rupture—that needs individualized attention and strategy.

These quarterly check-ins become your integration milestones.

We assess where you’ve grown, identify what’s still tripping you up, and create a clear path forward for the next three months. You get personalized feedback on your specific parenting challenges, tailored strategies that fit your family’s reality, and the focused support that helps you bridge the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it when it matters most.

This is the coaching that meets you exactly where you are—not where you think you should be, but where you actually are—and helps you take the next right step toward showing up as the regulated, connected, intentional parent your teen needs.

LJC Members ALSO get access to a 12 month coaching package at 50% off the typical rate for coaching.

For a more intense coaching experience, members get a 25% discount on coaching packages. Up to $525 in savings!  Learn more about private coaching here.

Office Hours:
Your Lifeline When You Need It Most

Twice a month, I’m holding space for you to drop in via Zoom—no appointment needed, no formal agenda required. Just show up with whatever is happening right now in your family.

Because parenting doesn’t wait for your next scheduled coaching call.

The hard conversations, the surprising behaviors, the moments when you’re second-guessing everything you just said—they happen throughout the week, and you may need insight now, not two weeks from now.

Quick questions stealing your peace. Sticky situations needing a fresh perspective. Moments when you want reassurance you’re on the right track.

You don’t need to prepare. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just show up, share what’s happening, and get the real-time support that helps you move forward with confidence.

Second and Fourth Wednesday | 12-1pm PST.

Soul Care Thursdays:
Tending to the Human Behind the Parent

Most weeks, we gather for an hour that has nothing to do with parenting strategies—and everything to do with remembering who you are beyond being someone’s parent.

This is your time to exhale.

We meditate together. We journal. We share what’s actually alive in our lives right now—the grief, the joy, the transitions, the questions that keep us awake at 3am. The messy, beautiful reality of being a human in midlife navigating not just teenagers, but our own evolving identities, relationships, bodies, and dreams.

Because here’s the truth: You can’t pour from an empty cup, and you can’t guide your teen through their transformation if you’re neglecting your own.

Soul Care Thursdays honor ALL of who you are—the parent, yes, but also the person processing aging parents, career shifts, friendship changes, and the profound question of who you’re becoming as your kids prepare to leave. This is the space where we tend to our own hearts with the same care and attention we give our children.

This is community at its most intimate and essential.

We witness each other. We hold space for whatever is present. We practice the kind of self-compassion and presence that we want to model for our teens—not as a concept to teach them, but as a lived experience they can feel in us.

You deserve this time. Your soul needs this tending. And your family benefits when you show up as a whole, nourished human—not just a depleted parent running on fumes.

Most Thursdays | 9-10am PST

The Forum:
Your 24/7 Community Space

Parenting doesn’t pause between calls, and neither does your community. Our online forum is where the real, everyday work of integration happens—where you can reach out at 11pm when your teen just dropped a bomb, or share a breakthrough moment while it’s still fresh.

This is your always-on support system.

Post your question when you’re stuck. Share your win when you need someone to celebrate with you. Vent when you need to be heard without judgment. Read others’ stories and realize you’re not the only one whose teen refused to get out of bed for school today, or whose boundary just got tested in a spectacular way.

The magic of this space is in the collective wisdom.

Someone else has been where you are. Someone else gets the specific flavor of your struggle. And when you share your own experience, you become that lifeline for another parent who desperately needs to know they’re not alone or losing their mind.

Members exchange practical advice, offer perspective when emotions are running high, and remind each other of what we know when we’re too triggered to remember. You can also connect one-on-one through private messaging, building deeper friendships with parents who truly understand your journey.

This is where community becomes connection—not just during scheduled calls, but in the daily, unglamorous, beautiful work of showing up for each other and ourselves.

Resource Bank:
Your Ever-Growing Library of Wisdom

As an LJC community member, you gain immediate access to our complete collection of past Joyful Courage Summits—multi-day events featuring in-depth expert conversations on adolescent brain development, mental health, substance use, college transitions, and the neuroscience behind effective parenting. These summits alone represent hundreds of dollars in value and hours of transformative content that isn’t available anywhere else.

But that’s just the beginning.

Every workshop call, every group coaching session, every themed training we create gets recorded and added to your resource library. This collection grows richer and more valuable with each month you’re a member, building an ever-expanding bank of content that’s specifically shaped by the real needs and questions of parents like you.

Here’s why having access to all of this matters:

You can’t always attend live—and that’s okay. Your teen has a crisis during the call you were excited about. You’re in a different time zone. Work runs late. Life happens. The resource bank means nothing is ever lost to you.

You can return to content exactly when you need it. That workshop on setting boundaries around social media you watched in February? It lands completely differently in September when your teen is asking for TikTok. That coaching call where someone navigated their teen’s depression? You didn’t need it then, but six months later when your own teen is struggling, that replay becomes a lifeline.

You’ll hear things you missed the first time. As you grow and integrate these tools, you’ll return to earlier content and discover layers you weren’t ready to hear before. A single workshop can serve you three different times in three different ways as your understanding deepens and your family’s needs evolve.

This is support that compounds over time. Your membership doesn’t just give you access to this month’s content—it gives you access to years of collective wisdom, expert guidance, and real-life integration that you can draw on exactly when your family needs it most.

Member Perks:
Because You’re Part of the Inner Circle

Your membership doesn’t just give you access to our core programming—it makes you part of our inner circle, which comes with meaningful benefits.

Me, on energetic speed dial. This is perhaps the most understated yet powerful benefit of membership: you have me in your corner, consistently and intimately. Through our weekly touchpoints, monthly calls, quarterly 1:1s, and daily forum presence, we’re in close relationship throughout the year.

You’re not reaching out to a distant expert when crisis hits—you’re connecting with someone who knows your family, your patterns, your growth edge, and your wins. There’s a unique comfort and confidence that comes from having a coach who’s tracking your journey, who recognizes your voice in the forum, who remembers what you’re working on. That closeness matters when you need support, guidance, or just someone who believes in you when you’re doubting yourself.

25% off all Joyful Courage offerings, including additional one-on-one coaching sessions beyond your quarterly calls, in-person retreats (like our annual gathering at Asilomar), specialized workshops, and any new programs we launch throughout the year.

First access to everything. Before we open registration to the public, you get early bird access to new events, limited-spot offerings, and retreat registrations. You’re always first to know and first in line.

These aren’t just discounts—they’re an investment in your ongoing growth. As you deepen your practice throughout the year, you may want more personalized support, an immersive retreat experience, or specialized training. Your membership ensures you can access these opportunities at a price that honors your commitment to this community.

We are all wired to connect and know we matter

How will this change my life?

This Work Isn’t Just For Your Teen—It’s For You

Feeling authentic connection and knowing we matter is at the heart of Positive Discipline, yes—but it isn’t ONLY true for our kids. It’s true for you too.

You need to be seen. You need to be deeply listened to. You need to know, without a doubt, that you matter—not just as a parent, but as a whole person navigating one of the most disorienting seasons of life.

Joining Living Joyful Courage gives you that.

A place where your struggles aren’t met with judgment but with understanding. Where your growth matters as much as your teen’s. Where you can nurture confidence not just in your parenting, but in all the domains of your life—your relationships, your boundaries, your sense of self as your role shifts and your kids pull away.

 

You’re checking this out because something feels off.

 

Maybe you’re struggling to maintain connection with your teen, and the distance between you feels like it’s widening every day.

Maybe you’re navigating profound loneliness as your teen builds a life that doesn’t include you the way it used to, and you’re grieving the closeness you once had.

Maybe you’re exhausted from the constant worry—about their mental health, their choices, their friends, their future—and you don’t know how to hold appropriate concern without letting anxiety run the show.

Maybe the “kind and firm” approach that worked when they were little feels impossible now that the stakes are higher, the risks are real, and their resistance is fierce.

Maybe you find yourself yelling more than you want to, or shutting down when you should be engaging, or lying awake replaying conversations you wish had gone differently.

Maybe you know what you should do, but when your teen pushes your buttons, all that knowledge disappears and you react from your most triggered, least effective place.

 

You’re tired of feeling like you’re doing this alone.

 

The membership will support you in coming back to who you know you are as a parent—and who you want to become. Not the reactive, anxious, controlling version of yourself that shows up under stress, but the grounded, connected, intentional parent you are at your best.

But here’s what you need to know: these years don’t wait.

Your teen is changing rapidly. The window for influence is real, and it’s narrow. The patterns you’re setting now—both in your relationship with them and in how you show up for yourself—are shaping what comes next.

You can keep white-knuckling your way through, hoping it gets easier, wondering if you’re doing enough.

Or you can step into a community designed specifically to help you navigate this exact season with more confidence, connection, and support than you’ve ever had.

The choice is yours. But don’t wait until the distance feels irreparable, or the patterns feel too entrenched, or your teen is already out the door.

The time to invest in this relationship—and in yourself—is now.

Meet your coach

Casey O’Roarty, M.Ed Adolescent Lead

I am Casey O’Roarty, and I am honored to be your guide in the Living Joyful Courage membership space. I am the mother of two adolescents myself – a 20 year old daughter and a 17 year old son, and I am walking right beside you on this wild path.

I am a Positive Discipline Lead Trainer, a parent coach and host of the Joyful Courage podcast. I am not afraid to keep it real and dig into the hard stuff.

Here is what others are saying about me as a leader:

“I can’t say enough good things about Casey. I’ve implemented her strategies and have seen significant improvements in my relationship with my teenager. Casey has become my go-to resource for navigating the challenges of parenting during the teenage years. Thank you, Casey, for sharing your wisdom and supporting parents like me!” – InspiredMama

 

Change your life

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Membership is currently closed.

Don’t worry it will open again in Jan 2026. Sign up for the waitlist to get first dibs and discounts. There’s no obligation to join. Email us and we will add you: [email protected]

Frequently asked questions

Who is this membership a good fit for?

Living Joyful Courage is designed for parents with kids in middle school through high school. If your child is between 11 and 18ish, this community is for you.

This membership is for parents who:

Are tired of the isolation that comes with raising teenagers. You need people who get it—who won’t judge you for the hard stuff and won’t pretend parenting teens is easier than it is.

Understand that fixing your teen isn’t the answer. You’re willing to look inward, examine your own reactions, and do the personal growth work that actually creates change in your family.

Want practical tools grounded in relationship, not tactics for gaining compliance. You’re looking for the “how” behind setting boundaries that don’t damage connection and having influence when control stops working.

Are facing real challenges—whether that’s school refusal, anxiety, depression, eating struggles, substance use, defiance, screen time wars, or the slow heartbreak of watching your once-close child pull away. Maybe it’s none of these, but something else that’s stealing your peace and making you question yourself daily.

This membership is also for parents who:

Have tried other programs or read all the books, but still struggle to implement what they know when emotions run high and their teen is melting down (or they are).

Feel caught between being too permissive and too controlling, and can’t find the middle ground everyone talks about.

Are navigating this season while also dealing with their own midlife questions, transitions, and identity shifts—because parenting teens doesn’t happen in a vacuum.

You don’t need to have it all figured out to join. In fact, most members come in feeling defeated, confused, or like they’re failing. What you do need is a willingness to show up, be honest about where you’re struggling, and stay committed to becoming the parent—and person—you want to be.

If you’re searching for community that feels authentic, coaching that meets you where you are, and content that helps you bridge the gap between knowing and doing—you’ve found it.

What is the underlying philosophy of this membership?

Living Joyful Courage is grounded in Positive Discipline philosophy and operates from a foundational belief: you cannot effectively guide your teenager if you’re not simultaneously growing yourself. The parent you are becoming matters as much as the child your teen is becoming.

Our approach rests on three pillars:

Deep personal work comes first. Before we address your teen’s behavior, we examine yours. Not because you’re doing it wrong, but because your nervous system, your triggers, your unhealed places—these are what determine whether you respond with wisdom or react from fear. We help you build the internal capacity to stay grounded when everything feels chaotic.

Relationship is the vehicle for influence. When your teen was little, you had power. Now you have something more valuable if you know how to use it: influence born from trust, respect, and genuine connection. This is where Positive Discipline shines—it gives you the framework for being both kind AND firm, for honoring your teen’s need for autonomy while maintaining appropriate boundaries. We focus on strengthening that relational foundation because every strategy fails without it.

Behavior is information, not something to control. Positive Discipline teaches us that all behavior has purpose—it’s a child’s best attempt to meet a need or communicate something they can’t express another way. We don’t traffic in punishments disguised as consequences or rewards that manipulate compliance. Instead, we get curious. What is your teen’s behavior telling you about what they need, what they’re struggling with, or what’s missing? This curiosity shifts you from adversary to ally and opens pathways to solutions that actually last.

Here’s what makes this work different:

We embrace the core Positive Discipline principles of mutual respect, belonging and significance, and the courage to be imperfect. We trust the messy process of growth—yours and your teen’s. We believe your needs matter just as much as your teen’s, and boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re essential.

Most importantly, we recognize that you are the most powerful variable in your family system. Not your teen’s choices, not their struggles, not external circumstances—you. The way you show up, the energy you bring, the intentionality behind your responses—this is where transformation begins.

This membership invites you into a deeper practice of self-awareness and deliberate action, rooted in Positive Discipline principles. Not so you can control outcomes, but so you can influence the overall energy and trajectory of your family with more confidence, clarity, and connection than you thought possible.

What is the time commitment?

The beauty of this membership is that you get to design your own level of engagement based on what your life can hold right now.

The core rhythm includes:

  • 6-week foundational class at the start of the year (live or watch the recordings on your own time)
  • Two monthly group calls (1st and 3rd Wednesdays, 90 minutes each)
  • Two monthly office hours (drop-in format, attend when you need support)
  • Weekly Soul Care Thursdays (one hour for personal renewal)
  • Quarterly 1:1 coaching (30 minutes, four times per year)
  • Daily forum access (engage as much or as little as serves you)

Here’s the truth: everything is optional.

Some members show up to every live call and are active in the forum daily. Others primarily use the recordings, dropping into live sessions when their schedule allows. Some lean heavily on office hours during crisis periods and step back when things stabilize. Others find Soul Care Thursdays to be their lifeline and rarely miss one.

The membership meets you where you are.

Busy season at work? Lean on the recordings and forum. Teen in crisis? Show up live for coaching and office hours. Feeling depleted? Prioritize Soul Care Thursdays and let the rest wait.

What matters most isn’t perfect attendance—it’s consistent connection to the community and the work. Even showing up once a month while staying engaged in the forum creates meaningful growth. The more you dive in, yes, the greater the impact—but sustainable engagement beats burnout every time.

You’re not joining another obligation. You’re joining a resource that flexes with your life and is always there when you need it.

Will the live calls be recorded?

Yes! All of the workshop and group coaching calls will be recorded and archived, creating a bank of resources to come back to when members are looking for support around a specific topic. Retreats and office hours are not recorded.

What if I want to cancel my membership?

You can cancel your membership after the first 30 days, no questions asked. The expectation when you sign up is that you are committing to be a part of the membership for a full year. Life is unpredictable, and this community is designed to walk with you through the ebbs AND the flows. We are nice people and we believe in excellent customer service. You can always reach out to us if you are unhappy with your membership and we will find a win-win solution for all.

Will this work for me?

Let’s be honest about what “working” actually means here.

If you’re asking whether this membership will magically transform your teen’s behavior overnight—no, that’s not how this works.

If you’re asking whether you’ll show up, do the work, practice the tools, engage with the community, and see measurable shifts in how you navigate challenges with your family—then yes, absolutely.

Here’s what determines whether this works:

Your willingness to look inward first. Parents who join this community and genuinely examine their own patterns, triggers, and behaviors—rather than just looking for strategies to fix their teen—experience profound transformation.

Your commitment to practice. You won’t nail it the first time. Or the tenth. The magic isn’t in getting it right—it’s in trying again and again, with growing awareness and compassion for yourself in the process.

Your engagement with the community. Parents who show up to calls, participate in the forum, use their coaching time, and stay connected to the work see results. This isn’t passive content consumption—it’s active integration.

Your realistic expectations. This might be your starting point, not your ending point. Some families need additional support—therapy, medical intervention, specialized services. This membership can be a powerful foundation while you pursue other resources, or it can be the primary support you need. Either way is valid.

The real question isn’t “will this work?”—it’s “am I ready to work?”

Ready to show up imperfectly and keep showing up anyway. Ready to practice tools that feel awkward at first. Ready to celebrate small wins and learn from spectacular fails. Ready to trust that changing yourself truly does change your family system, even when progress feels slow.

If the answer is yes, this membership will absolutely serve you. Not because it’s magic, but because you’re willing to do what it takes to create the family dynamic and the life you want.

Who is this program NOT a good fit for?

This program is not designed for parents who are in the season of parenting babies, toddlers or preschoolers. This membership is also not designed for parents of school ages kids. This membership is not for people who aren’t parents.

This membership is for parents of middle school kids and older, 12+ years old.

This program is not for parents who are unwilling to look at their own contribution to the struggles and discouragement they are finding themselves in.

This program is not for parents who are attached to laying down the law, issuing punishments, using rewards/bribes, or holding a belief that tweens/teens should be obedient towards adults, no questions asked.

Other questions? Email Casey at [email protected].

Change your life

join our membership community

Membership is currently closed.

Don’t worry it will open again in Jan 2026. Sign up for the waitlist to get first dibs and discounts. There’s no obligation to join. Email us and we will add you: [email protected]