Eps 265: Solo Show- Belief Behind Behavior Deep Dive Part 2: Misguided Power


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This week’s episode is a SOLO show!!

Takeaways from the show:

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  • Adlerian theory

  • Our perception of belonging and significance colors the lens we see the world out of

  • Undue attention review

  • Honor your kids beliefs

  • Second mistaken goal: Misguided power

  • Notice how your child’s behavior makes you feel

  • Power struggles

  • Ways adults add to this behavior

  • The importance of teaching your kids to contribute in ways for them to use their power

  • You are not in control of your kids

  • Teens want the acknowledgement of how capable they are

  • Acknowledge your part in the stuff that’s gone down with your teens

  • House rules audit

  • The importance of practicing follow through

  • How to make your child feel a greater sense of belonging and significance

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Resources: Coaching Page | Eps 261 | Eps 129 | Eps 177 | Eps 218 | Eps 261 | Eps 263 

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