Today we are going to revisit Episode 138, my conversation with Genevieve Simperingham about what peaceful parenting during the teen years looks like.
Genevieve Simperingham is a counsellor, an AWARE parenting educator, a writer, a group facilitator, meditation teacher and founder of the Peaceful Parent Institute in New Zealand. Over the last 24 years, Genevieve has presented hundreds of workshops and courses. She has parented her own kids using attachment principles and she seeks to empower parents with the tools that result in increased harmony, trust and cooperation in the family unit. We are discussing peaceful parenting our teenagers. Join us!
“It’s about bringing into your parenting not just how you should respond in this situation or in that situation and our different approaches and techniques (which are really, really important) but it’s all about who we are as a person and who our child is as a person and the dynamic and the energy between us.”
“We shouldn’t be in fighter stance simply because we have teenagers.”
What you’ll hear in this episode:
What is peaceful parenting and how it is different than some of the more mainstream behaviorist parenting approaches.
The Centre, Connect, Communicate approach
Stress management, self care and healing trauma and how they relate to parenting
The need for authenticity in empathy and curiosity
The biggest hang-ups for parents around peaceful parenting teenagers
Having tough conversations with your teens without shorting out the connection at the outset
Setting and holding limits within the peaceful parenting framework
Sex, drugs and alcohol use in teens – is it better to allow at home or to restrict?
Reducing power struggles and rebellion
Educating and empowering teens to make their own choices
Reconnecting to move past conflict
What does Joyful Courage mean to you?
Joyful courage to me, it connects me with that last bit that we were just talking about, to me it’s about joy we feel in the heart and it takes a lot of courage to reconnect. So to me it’s about opening the heart and allowing the joy, the enjoyment of the relationship, of the connection to come back in and that takes courage. It takes courage to be vulnerable again. It’s easier to be hard and defensive and stern and it takes courage to open the heart come back to the joy of that beautiful connection again.
Where to find Genevieve:
Joyful Courage: Calming the drama and taking control of your parenting journey
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